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Marriage & Relationship Goals Link-up

03 February 2014

What is your position on Valentine's Day? Are you a lover or a hater? 

In all truthfulness, I'm luke warm. Whereas I find myself wanting to feel all gushy about my main squeeze a.k.a. Mr. Collier, I find myself becoming one of "those people" who don't need a holiday to feel it let alone express it. Get what I'm sayin'??

Now having gone through the Love Dare and 5 Love Languages study, I now appreciate that Mr. Collier is a quality time sort of guy. Paradoxically [can you tell that I've been writing my dissertation much???] I haven't had much spare time as I'm wrapping up my doctoral studies culminating in my defense on Feb 27th.

So my monthly marriage goal will be to focus at least 30 minutes of quality listening during our quality time. Not focusing on what I want to say next in response to his stories, antidotes about his day, etc but rather listening intently to forge that connection. 

What is your goal this month for your marriage?

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